Oh So Buff (Fitness Etiquette)

Etiquette for fitness buffs:

Smell-Impaired: Please, I beg of you – lift your ban on deodorant. If you can’t smell yourself, rest assured that the rest of us can smell you from a mile away. You might want to consider visiting an ENT because there is obviously something wrong with your sense of smell. And perhaps you should take a shower before you work out. With lots of soap.

Sweaters: You go hand-in-hand with the smell-impaired gym members.  Do you think it’s attractive to walk around the gym wearing a shirt that’s drenched in your own sweat? Perhaps you don’t think that you smell. I am here to tell you that you stink to high heaven!  Is it that difficult to bring a back-up shirt that you can change into following your cardio work-out? Frankly, I’m not too keen on smelling you or using any fitness equipment that you’ve touched before me.

Hogs: OK look. There’s a sign-up sheet for a reason – to limit how long a person can use cardio equipment. It is not my problem if you got on your machine late – I signed up for 30 damn minutes and I fully intend to climb stairs for those 30 minutes. If you can’t respect the cut-off then don’t use the cardio equipment. Furthermore, don’t give me dirty looks, or a disgruntled sigh when I politely ask you if you’re almost done. There’s a clock right in front of you and I’d also like to mention that all cardio equipment have built-in timers. Lastly, no, I will not use another machine. I signed up for #34 and #34 is what I’m going to use. Why? Because I like #34!

I’m in a hurry: That’s nice. But I’m using the leg press right now and no, we can’t alternate sets because I press 90 pounds and you press 300. Changing plates in-between sets will take me more time to finish my sets and guess what? I’m in a hurry too.

Messy Weights: If you feel the need to walk and train, can you please place the weights back where you got them so I don’t have to waste 10 minutes of my time searching for that elusive 15-pound dumbbell? There’s an entire section dedicated to weight training – leave the weights where they belong. I already did my cardio and have no desire to run laps around the gym looking for one dumbbell!

Barely dressed: Do you see any sand or water? No? That’s because the gym is not a beach, so how about you cover your ass up with a decent pair of pants? That means you too boys! I don’t need to see your ass cheeks hanging out of your shorts or your butt crack when I work out.  Same thing goes for the boobage.

Special note to hot yoga chick: While it is recommended that you wear as little as possible when attending a Moksha or Bikram class, I don’t think going braless is what they meant. No one wants to see your boobs swinging in Down Dog dude.

Eyeballers: What I enjoy the most about working out in a gym, is being eyeballed by some random person. I didn’t realize I was performing for an audience.

The Situation(s): Look at me! I can lift 800 pounds! I’m shaped like a light bulb but DUDE look at my abs!

Testosterone City: Is it necessary for all Popeye T-Shirt wearing muscle heads to commune in the weight training area, leaving no one else with the opportunity to weight train? All you care about is your pecs – so just commune around the pec machine and we’ll call it a day.

Etiquette for Gym Staff: As you’ll see, the “trainers” at my gym are lazy asses – and super motivating!

1) Here’s a novel idea: try greeting your gym members when they walk through the door. Smiling helps.

2) If you see that someone isn’t working out correctly or doesn’t have proper form, it’s your job to correct them. Do you realize that improper form can lead to injury? Furthermore, if you know that an exercise will yield better results if performed differently, get off your lazy ass and share that knowledge.  It’s your responsibility to help your members achieve their goals isn’t it?

3) If you’re not interested in the health and well-being of your client(s) at least pretend that you are. Most people who are starting out are nervous and self-conscious – showing a little empathy and listening to their objectives might make them feel better.

4) Following point #3 – not everyone has the same objective, body type or health constraints. Assess the individual instead of automatically pulling out one of your stupid generic work-outs!

5) Lose the attitude. Most of you don’t even have the proper certification or knowledge to train properly. That’s why I create my own programs!

6) There is nothing I find more motivating then seeing a ‘trainer’ who is overweight. Better yet, a gym manager who is overweight. This is what we all aspire to!

20 thoughts on “Oh So Buff (Fitness Etiquette)

    • Oh NO Jonette, don’t let that stop you from trying yoga! Mind if I email you my suggestions/tips directly? I have the email address that you left with your comment 🙂

  1. Very funny and very true at a lot of gyms. My gym is about hard core fitness so I see lots of Situations, male and female lol. I think some people stare because people watching makes it less painful to be there.

      • Me either, though I will admire someone for their fitness level – but only because it motivates me to work harder. When I’m at the hot yoga studio, sometimes I do sneak a peak at the chicks around me though LOL! 😀

  2. Well done A – excellent post! can just see you ranting your head off – I hope to hell you sat back feeling smug with yourself after you finished this….”No one wants to see your boobs swinging in Down Dog dude.” – just wrong – on soooo many levels.

  3. HA!!! Loved this! I actually just am trying out a gum for a month, so it is my first time in the fitness world!!! ANd I have already seen some of this….

  4. Oh my – can I confirm that gym have these same folks even on the other side of the world!

    And these reasons are why I have let yet another gym membership slide, and have begun working out at home…..

  5. Hilarious! I have one rant to add to yours – it may be a women’s dressing room, but that doesn’t mean that I want to come in there and be confronted by a woman stripping down (or getting dressed from scratch) when all the changing rooms are free!

    • That completely slipped my mind – thanks! Though I have to say that I notice this more at the yoga studio. I don’t know if it’s because yoga makes you feel hot and these gals want to share their hotness but…. I’m not a fan of full frontal nudity either!

  6. Some of the main reasons I don’t want to go to the gym. I would want to exercise, not see & be seen (or smell & be smelled for that matter). Stopping by from BlogFrog to say hi!

    • Thanks for stopping by Michelle! LOL, I get you! But I love working out, so I just have to take my chances and hope that no stinky dudes are working out when I go! I have to be honest, I’ve left the gym early on a few occasions because I was so put of by the stink of man! 😀

  7. Hilarious my friend! So I have never actually worked out at a gym because I have always been discouraged from major exercise because of my heart issues. However, I can relate to the post because I have several friends that have memberships and I have heard their horror stories. I still don’t understand why the light bulbs think they look good. They need to GET A CLUE.

    • I truly don’t understand it either. I think we might need to call Ron and The Situation from The Jersey Whores for this one – I’m sure they can enlighten us about the light bulb look, and also, Snookie’s giant hairdos!

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